Engage culture:
Do you have any friend outside of "church"? Jesus was a “friend of sinners.” He did that by eating with
them. We must be friends with the culture. We need to be missionaries. What do you like to do? Drink coffee? Go and hang out at the local coffee shop... and be friendly. Don't be a like a salesman trying to turn or burn someone to come to the Lord. Just be yourself.... hopefully you aren't an overbearing legalistic sort of person :)
What was Jesus like? People wanted to be WITH JESUS.
When was the last time people were knocking down doors to get into your
church/small group?
Our problem is
perception.
What people 1) See.... 2) Hear..... 3) Experience = perception
Ponder that equation. Put on a fresh set of eyes. When you come into contact with people... when people go to your church or small group.... what do they see, hear and experience?